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Wednesday, January 29, 2014

Bowling Tournament, Who Will Come Out On Top?

     I think the general consensus of the class is that no one is a professional bowler. That being said, a couple of the students really stood out and had a little more experience than everyone else.

  1. Joseph Bodenbach,  a junior, bowled a lot over Christmas break. He said he got a 167 during that time, and that he spent a lot of his childhood bowling. He's a tall guy, but he does have a method: "Speed, not accuracy." Well, with long arms like that, what could go wrong? 
  2. We also have Nolan Ismande, a senior who says bowling is in his blood. Although he says he is quite hit or miss, and may crack under pressure, his high is a 175, which is pretty impressive. He also plays once a month. 
  3. Then we have senior Charlie Potter. He seems to be a veteram. He says he goes to Leland Lanes a lot. Once a week, maybe even more. He could have a home court advantage. But one important thing to note: when the drinks start flowing and the pitchers start showing up, you can count this guy out. The more he drinks...well, you know. He has said, "Watch out for the second pitcher." 
     As far as long shots go, I'd say pretty much everyone else falls into that category. However, Tyler Hanes fits into a different sort of category. I call him, "The Hustler." He says that although his last score was 36, his next game could be 150, he just never knows. I guess it depends on how well he can hustle the other players. He, too has a way of winning, in addition to hustling: throw that bowling ball right down the middle. I mean, what's the worst that could happen, right? 
     But then we have Victoria Sheehan, a senior who recently started bowling without the bumpers going down the lane. She claims herself to be a "silent predator," however she mentioned a really high score which she thought wasn't that high and the whole class had to laugh. Her credibility went out the window after that. Her words, "triumphs and tragedies" may be accurate after all. 
     As for me, well, I don't like to let all my secrets out. All I can say is that it will be a surprise. 

Sunday, September 22, 2013

Mental Illness Stigma Article

Something else that I'm passionate about? Writing. I wrote this for my JN315 class. I couldn't have asked to find better sources or people who are more passionate about what they do.

The Deception of “Mental Illness” 

The term “mental illness” is offensive and disrespectful, although not untrue. Mental health consumers really are ill. 
It’s not something that can be fixed with a “cheer up” and a pat on the back, it’s a sickness that needs actual treatment. 
However, mental illness has had a glaring stigma surrounding it since Biblical times. 
“Back then the mentally ill were regarded as demon-possessed,” said Dale Wisely, a clinical psychologist of 24 years in the Birmingham area. 
A stigma is defined by the Merriam-Webster dictionary as “a mark of shame or discredit.” 
It shouldn’t be easy to mark someone with an illness through no fault of their own as shameful, but human behavior shows it happens every day. 
What is hard for people who don’t suffer from a mental illness to understand is it’s just like any other malady. It is a disease.  
Emily Tucker, a private practitioner, licensed professional counselor and Nationally Certified Counselor in the mental health field, thinks of the stigma of mental illness in much more simple terms. 
“A person cannot simply think their way out of a depression. We would not expect a diabetic to push through an insulin crisis, or a person with high blood pressure to will it away,” said Tucker.
Susan Hart, the director of University of Alabama at Birmingham’s Counseling and Wellness Center, makes the same point. 
“Mental illness is a brain illness. Sometimes it’s temporary and other times it is a lifelong struggle. When our brain gets sick it’s a mental illness.” 
It isn’t easy to have a conversation with someone who wants to end their life, who just got divorced or lived through a sexual assault. Although the physical damage may not be there, there is damage below the surface. 
“I believe the more severe the illness, the less we understand as a whole. We also often avoid uncomfortable discussions such as asking someone if they are feeling suicidal when we see warning signs.”
Tucker advocates that the best thing to do in that case is easy: talk to them. 
“It’s not that people don’t care, sometimes we are afraid we will say the wrong thing, so we say nothing. Other than saying something intentionally cruel or hurtful, there is no wrong thing we can say. The interest and caring shown by asking someone if they are doing alright can really go a long way.” 
Mental illness shouldn’t be a scary thing. Often, fear is caused by lack of factual knowledge. 
Facts point to one conclusion: mental health consumers rarely, if ever, become physically violent.  
Dr. Paul Mullen, a licensed clinical psychologist in Illinois, conducted a study in 2006 and concluded that of the 1 in 100 people who have schizophrenia, only 0.1% are sometimes violent. 
And if the individual is in treatment, then the odds are almost the same as for the general population. 
Why should a such misguided ideas even exist about mental illness? Hart blames something called social programming.
“Most of us learn very early in life that being beautiful, smart, popular and successful are attractive qualities. Social programming sets us up for both a positive and negative bias about others. This of course motivates us to seek healthy, beautiful people and to shun and exclude those who seem defective or inferior. Mental illness often alters one’s capacity for beauty, efficacy, and success,” said Hart. 
The issue turns out to be just lack of understanding. What can be done to remedy the problem? Research. Kindness and a little bit of character can go a long way. 
Respect is also another important thing to think about when referring to mental health consumers. 
“I would love to see us find new terms that are less associated with stigma,” said Tucker. “I rarely use that term (mental illness) in my practice.” 
To learn more preferable terms for mental illness, please visit http://www.mindfreedom.org/kb/mental-health-abuse/psychiatric-labels/not-mentally-ill

Wednesday, June 5, 2013

Lots of pictures! (And Tommy Shaw of Styx!)

BOY OH BOY HAS IT BEEN A WHILE
Hi, you guys. I haven't written a post in forever and so much has happened! Some good, some bad, unfortunately. 
Snoop is still Snoop: 
I got a Louis Vuitton Speedy:
I went to Vegas: 
It was pretty awesome. It's a totally different atmosphere from ole' Sweet Home Alabama. There are people walking around half naked everywhere you look. People are spending outrageous amounts of money at poker and blackjack tables. Slots are being filled to the brim with coin. 
It's definitely an experience that I feel like every one should partake in before they die. I wondered how many famous people had walked the same streets I was walking on, and how many people came to Vegas, never to leave. 
The shopping opportunities were AMAZING. There were shops everywhere, and three different Louis Vuitton stores that I saw. There were also Michael Kors, Alexander McQueen, and Chloe stores. Even Christian Louboutin! 
The place I was most excited about was of course the two-story Forever 21. I have never seen anything like it. I spent around four hours in there and STILL didn't see everything. 
I also got to see the Hoover Dam. It's pretty neat. It's crazy huge. I can't imagine the long hours and hard work that went into building it. 
I also met Tommy Shaw of Styx at the airport, which was pretty cool! I've never really been close to a celebrity before (that I can remember) so this was definitely sweet. 
And here I am at the huge Forever 21. 
I hope this post wasn't toooooooo terribly boring. 
I also hope more posts are to come, things have been crazy lately. 
Laters, loves! 
XOX




Monday, November 5, 2012

Magic Monday!

Hi guys! 
Let me start by saying this weekend was fantabulous. Friday I went shopping with my lovely mother, Saturday Alabama pulled out a win in the last minute of the game, and Sunday I discovered Breaking Bad. It's been wonderful. This blog post is inspired by the items that I found on Friday, which are found below. 


I found this beauty at my local thrift store, and have been wanting a fur vest for quite some time! I love that it's black so that it goes with so much (most of my wardrobe happens to be black...I don't really know how this happens..) and I love the feel of it. The back of the vest is actually a sweater like material, which I think is good because it keeps it from being too heavy. 

These items I got at Forever 21! I've wanted something with the crosses on it for a while now and when I saw this sweater, I had to have it.  I just realized that every item on this blog post is black...oh well. The pants are skinny jeans with wine colored polka dots on them. I can't wait to pair them with some boots and a chunky sweater (maybe of a color other than black!) 

LOVE LOVE LOVE this coat. I found it at Ross for a steal. I recently saw a blog post on Bloglovin' where a girl had a coat very similar to this one, and I fell in love. And then the same day while out at Ross, this one popped up. The shiny parts are leather (or pleather) and the rest is a wool-like fabric. 
In my opinion, if you can get away with materials that are inexpensive and look like the real (much more expensive) thing, then why pay the extra money? Whenever I see someone wearing something adorable, I don't ask them how much it was, I ask them where they got it. I don't like discounting something just because it isn't "name-brand" or really expensive. If you look cute, you look cute. And that's the end. 
My dad and I recently got my mom an oversized Michael Kors Runway watch she had been eyeing for well over a year for their wedding anniversary. It is absolutely GORGEOUS. And then the other night at Wal-Mart, I got one that looks very similar for about ten dollars. Will it last as long as hers? Probably not. Is it still cute and pretty...at least while it lasts? Oh yeah. 

And a side note: Happy anniversary to my parents, and happy birthday to my dad! I love you both more than you will ever know! 


P.S. Pictures of watch in next post? Perhaps. 

xo
Em

Friday, November 2, 2012

Newness

So, I'm super duper excited about the future. I had a visit with my advisor this morning and got news that I could potentially graduate in December 2014! I will be graduating with a major in Journalism and an English minor. I cannot wait to see what the future holds. I'm currently trying to attain an internship at a local news station or newspaper. I would love to find one at a local fashion magazine, or possibly write in the Styles section of a newspaper. Expect a new blog post soon! It's difficult to keep up with school and this at the same time, but I'm going to try and do better! Also, I've been thinking about doing a fashionista of the day post in which I take a picture of someone and then do a little interview with them. What do you guys think? Leave me feedback!
xxxooo 
E

Wednesday, September 19, 2012

Long time no post!

Hi guys!
I know it's been forever and a day since I've posted anything, I just got really busy with work and then I came back to school and it's been a tad bit hectic. I got a dog! His name is Snoop, and he's pretty much the greatest dog in the world. 
(insert one of many adorable pictures here) 
He loves wearing clothes. Yeah, I know what you're thinking. You're thinking, "Yeah, I'm sure he just loves it." But he honestly does. When he sees me pick up one of his little shirts, he hops up on my legs and sticks his head through the hole. Then he lifts his little paws up...it's completely adorable...
But anyway...
I went to the thrift store about a week ago and got two really adorable pieces so I thought I'd share. 

The first is a tweed skirt from Old Navy. It sits pretty high on the waist, perfect for tucking in a t-shirt with a blazer underneath. 
The second is a purple jacket from a brand I've never heard of before. The bottom of the jacket itself and the bottom of the sleeves are bubbled out and it looks SO CUTE on. It's getting colder here (finally) so I may post pictures of me wearing it soon. It's one of the reasons I want it to get colder. It....and these boots that I got at TJMaxx the other day... They're by Guess. I had a gift card, so I figured, why not? 
Should I take them back and get something else? Do you guys think I'll get a lot of use out of them? Are they that versatile?  
Leave me feedback! 
xoxo 
Emily 


Tuesday, June 26, 2012

Oh, Louis.

Just a little blog post, I've been pretty busy lately and have been so absent-minded. Today I went thrifting for the first time at a Mission Possible in Irondale, and I came across a gem. I hadn't really been that successful thus far, but as I was checking out, I spotted this in the display case...
Gold trim, vintage. I'm in love. <3 I have wanted a vintage Louis for so long.
Any of you come across any great finds thrifting lately? Leave a comment!
And there should be posts very soon about the latest shorts I've reworked. 
xoxo 
E